Who's smoking? Lol... Btw if you're going to post this for someone else at least spell it right I dunno who you talking bout.

You're too young to know you shouldnt pick up someone elses trash. Find a girl whos in the same stages of life as you, not one who has complicated her life so much through her own actions.

Meh. So your loving a person who sounds way older then you with two kids already. As Hales said..... Go love a person who is the same stage as you. But if you really love her, then good luck.

Old Doctor wrote:

shes the same age as me wong, she had her first kid when she was 16 and thats ok with me i love this woman and no one can change my opinion of her. i will love her until the end of time.

Alrite. See if you can tell me the same thing when your 40-50.

Ok, let me try and set you straight. You're not "...accept[ing] responsibility for someone you love honestly", You're actually being strung along by a girl who has you in the friend zone.

Never once did you mention this chick having feelings for you. You have feelings for her, and she pats you on the head, gives you a kiss on the cheek and says thanks for being there for me. Then she fucks some guy and gets more kids. If you continue your path with her you will be the forever alone meme, you are in the friend zone. Welcome, it sucks and there's something you CAN do about it, but its not smothering her with love. It's getting the fuck out of dodge and not being a pussy whip.

If you don't see this unfolding in front of your eyes, you are way too green in the world of women and you will be forever strung along like a little puppy by her and all women you encounter; a cast shadow following a trail of smoke and mirrors. The faster you listen to what Hales and Wong said, the better off you will be.

If you fail to listen to what we have told you, you will one day realize how stupid you were. From your words, I feel that you sound very infatuated with her, and you see a damaged woman that you want to "fix". I know how that feels. Quit it!

She likes you, she loves an asshole. Girls don't realize one day that the guy being super nice to her is the one that deserves her attention. Why? Because you can't CONVINCE a girl to like you. You have to create attraction. Attraction is not created by being a predictable wimp. Buying gifts, being nice, doing stuff for her is PREDICTIBLE! You know that annoying fucking player that follows you around the server while you're trying to do shit? That's you.

Forget what you feel. You are wrong. Your beta male is taking over and you're being a bitch. Get the fuck on youtube and watch some PUA material and stop fooling yourself.

On a similar note. She has children. You are a child yourself despite how mature you think you are. I am shocked you don't see this. If this is a troll post for attention, well played, but I actually enjoy reflecting on situations like these and telling you what you should be doing. It keeps me fresh.

This is a cry for help. Cry answered. /CRY. Go do some pushups.

polskon wrote:

Ok, let me try and set you straight. You're not "...accept[ing] responsibility for someone you love honestly", You're actually being strung along by a girl who has you in the friend zone.

Never once did you mention this chick having feelings for you. You have feelings for her, and she pats you on the head, gives you a kiss on the cheek and says thanks for being there for me. Then she fucks some guy and gets more kids. If you continue your path with her you will be the forever alone meme, you are in the friend zone. Welcome, it sucks and there's something you CAN do about it, but its not smothering her with love. It's getting the fuck out of dodge and not being a pussy whip.

If you don't see this unfolding in front of your eyes, you are way too green in the world of women and you will be forever strung along like a little puppy by her and all women you encounter; a cast shadow following a trail of smoke and mirrors. The faster you listen to what Hales and Wong said, the better off you will be.

If you fail to listen to what we have told you, you will one day realize how stupid you were. From your words, I feel that you sound very infatuated with her, and you see a damaged woman that you want to "fix". I know how that feels. Quit it!

She likes you, she loves an asshole. Girls don't realize one day that the guy being super nice to her is the one that deserves her attention. Why? Because you can't CONVINCE a girl to like you. You have to create attraction. Attraction is not created by being a predictable wimp. Buying gifts, being nice, doing stuff for her is PREDICTIBLE! You know that annoying fucking player that follows you around the server while you're trying to do shit? That's you.

Forget what you feel. You are wrong. Your beta male is taking over and you're being a bitch. Get the fuck on youtube and watch some PUA material and stop fooling yourself.

On a similar note. She has children. You are a child yourself despite how mature you think you are. I am shocked you don't see this. If this is a troll post for attention, well played, but I actually enjoy reflecting on situations like these and telling you what you should be doing. It keeps me fresh.

This is a cry for help. Cry answered. /CRY. Go do some pushups.

I agree with everything this guy said. Lol I hate when newbs start following me. I aint gonna do anything special for you just because your following me. Then I shot you.

Word of advice, don't stalk women or else they'll think you're a pedophile. Also, do what people do in the "movies" get something nearby what she's getting and ask her for whatever shit and then try and have a nice convo.

I don't understand what you mean by all girls being that way. All girls are different, but attraction only works one way. It's attraction that is static here, not the woman.

I could be wrong about her, I doubt it though, but I'm not wrong about attraction. Considering you have only mentioned your love for her, I am inclined to believe you are friend-zoned beyond belief. Why? Because you are typing like a puppy dog missing his owner.

Showing how much you care about a girl isn't how to do it. There's no mystery for her. It's why guys fail with girls all the time. Girls like mystery. Girls want to do the chasing but you have to LET THEM. They don't want to be chased. Why do you think every dude in the friend-zone is doing everything he can to show her his love and she thinks he's just being a nice friend.

Basically you proved me right by saying "she keeps getting into bad relationships". She doesn't want a nice guy. How did you not put those two together? Why isn't she dating YOU instead of these assholes? It's because they aren't putting her on a pedestal.

The solution isn't to be a jerk, break her heart, rinse, repeat. You have to just be enough of a jerk to keep her in suspense. That magic formula is all up to you to create though! Some guys use it to do evil. Don't be that guy.

You "Hey I like you! You're so pretty"
Her "Yeah I'm pretty"
= No progression, she knows what you want

versus

You "Hey nice shoes, did you get them from a homeless guy"
Her "LOL you jerk!"
= She has no idea that you're trying to fuck her, but you're funny and she likes it so you build attraction

That's how it will work. Every... single... time. Attraction is a GAME. It's always been a game. You have to make her like you without telling her you like her.

Your comments make you sound delusional. You can't tell me that I don't know about women. I've come a long way myself. I wasn't born Rico Suave and I'm still not, but I get laid and it's not by finding unwed mothers and telling them how nice their smile looks.

Edit: I just read what you said in a certain post. Something along the lines of loving her children, her, and supporting them is the right thing to do. This is very flawed and incredibly leeching on your good will. The point of life is to find someone that YOU need, not someone that you think you need to support because "it's the right thing to do".

Haha that would be funny. I know exact ally what will happen. "That's not me at all", you'll fall for it. She will then proceed to fall in love with an asshole because girls can't come to this self realization that their mechanism for attraction is "wrong".

Imagine you're addicted to smoking. You can't breath, you're sick, you have to quit, you read the facts, you decide to quit. This doesn't mean you won't want a cigarette ever again. Attraction works that way too. You can tell a girl "you're dumb, you fall for the wrong guys", she will say "I know", then proceed to fall for a jerk. Eventually she will learn the hard way and meet a good guy but it will be someone she is attracted to... and I explained how attraction works already.

Anyone ever told you polskon you have great fucking advices to dating? Lol. I could probably use some of these whenever I'll try getting into dating... Yet, I'm still trying to get to base 1, actually getting a girlfriend -_-.